For Christian Men
Stop Drifting. Start Living for What Actually Matters.
You Already Know Something Is Off.
You are a Christian man who takes his faith seriously. But if you are honest, the distance between who you are and who you know God is calling you to be has been growing. Quietly. For a while now.
Have you ever felt like:
- You believe, but your faith feels more like a habit than a thriving relationship
- You are present at home but quietly absent in the ways that matter most
- You are building security here instead of investing in what actually lasts
- You know something is off but have never stopped long enough to face it
Am I Drifting? was written for exactly this moment.
Not Another Bible Study. A Mirror.
This is not a feel-good devotional. It is five honest lessons, each grounded in one focused piece of Scripture, designed to show you clearly where you have drifted from the Lord.
The man who is willing to be honest with himself is already closer to change than he knows.
Inside the Guide:
- Grounded in Scripture, focused on one truth per lesson, nothing scattered
- Designed to print cleanly at home, minimal ink, maximum impact
- Questions that actually make you stop, think, and feel something
- Five lessons written from personal experience, not theory
- Short enough to finish, honest enough to remember
Your Soul
Lesson 01
Most men haven’t honestly assessed where they actually are with God in years. This section cuts through the noise and gets to what is really happening beneath the surface.
Your Marriage
Lesson 02
You can share a home and a life with someone and still be quietly drifting apart. This section helps you see exactly what you are bringing to your marriage right now.
Your Children
Lesson 03
Your children are drawing conclusions about what is worth living for by watching you every day. This section asks you to look honestly at what they are actually seeing.
Your Work
Lesson 04
For many men, work quietly moves from a means to a mission without them ever noticing. This section asks whether your work is serving the life God called you to or replacing it.
Your Relationships
Lesson 05
When a man drifts from God he starts to look like everyone around him. Nothing stands out. This section asks whether anyone in your life sees anything different in you at all.
From Ben of These 24 Hours.
I’m Ben. Follower of Christ, husband, father of six, and business owner.
Life is busy, and honestly, that busyness has made me a drifter more times than I’d like to admit. Not out of rebellion, but a slow lack of intentionality in my relationship with God. This guide was born out of my own honest reckoning with that. The first step back was simply telling myself the truth.
Why Did I Create This?
I have been through dozens of Bible studies, small group guides, and personal assessments over the years. Most of them were too long. Too vague. Too easy to get through without being genuinely challenged.
I wanted something different. Something that asks the questions most men avoid. With relatable topics grounded in Scripture and focused on an eternal perspective. So I meticulously crafted a tool that respects your time and creates real change in your life.
This guide is for the man who is serious about his relationship with God, his role as a leader, and the legacy he is leaving behind.
Wake Up Before You Lose Your Way.
The drift is already costing you something. Your peace. Your presence. Your purpose. The only question is how much longer you are willing to let it.
